Why?. why leave us with so much pain? I hope mom has given you a rite telling off for doing it! you,ve left so many people lost, including me.....i cant get over wot you,ve done......If god has forgiven you for your actions, look down on me and guide me in the right way. I,m so lost....love and miss you my darling sister.....why did it have to come to this?...pain is unbearable, to all of us...we try to cope but we all have down times, but you didnt need to do that!!!!...everyone has forgiveness, no matter what....i,m struggling wendy, please guide me, and dont be like mom and say pull yourself together....cuz it does,nt work....as you knew...

I love and miss you so much....want to be there with you, but got to look after the rest of us!...Sleep tite....lickle bruv...xxxx.

Hi Sis, really, really, missing you!!

JuXX

it feels like a lifetime you have been gone now, i cant beleive how everything carries on as normal, i am so hurting inside still im absolutly gutted still and cant imagine my life without you i miss you so much wend i hope you are at peace now. Thinking of you always and everyday not a minute goes by when you are not on my mind, sleep tight sis. miss you x

Wendy and I knew each other when we both lived in Rheindahlen and she was a fantastic friend to me. I was so very sad to hear the devastating news. I could not come to her funeral as I only found out the day before that Wendy had died, but I will drive up to see her resting place soon.

She was fun, vivacious, glamorous, intelligent and very, very kind. I look at her everyday as I still have a photograph of her and I which she had framed for me in my lounge.

My thoughts go out to Wendy's whole family - I know she will be missed like mad xxx lots of love Faye Laing xxx

So, so sad to hear this news. We had some cracking times in our early days in the army. I remember my one and only time at the Bull ring with you and the hospitality shown us by you and your family. You will be missed.

Love Debbie Davison

Dear Wendy

I'll always remember you for the fun we had, from driving back to camp; day tripping to France and all the fun we had in between.

This has to be the saddest news.

Think of you always.

Christine xxxx

My gorgeous sister Wendy, you are gone but i still feel you here with me, everyday i shall live the way you would of thought fit, long will you remain my inspiration i always wanted to be like you and experience the things you have, i will try wend. I love you so much and words can never express the devastating sadness i feel, you are forever in my heart and will always remain a massive part of me, keep smilin sis, your ok now, we'll meet again one day, guide me through ok. I LOVE YOU WENDY X

You may not be here now, but your always in my mind. For you being so strong within the family, has given us the strength to carry on. I miss you so much.xxx